April 28, 2018
So for those of you who don’t know me, I’m Christiney’s younger sister, or as my little brother and I like to call her, Crusty Christy!
Growing up my sister was “that sister” that was always in a relationship; boyfriend after boyfriend. I remember always having to lie to my parents for her about where she was after school and always making up excuses on what she was doing (sorry me, ba). It’s funny because her track record shows a lot of Asian bad boys, and then there’s Harry… the DOTA playing physics graduate!
Anyways, when I look at the handful of serious relationships she had, I think about how quickly they wrapped up and how little fight was put up at the end. I mean when she’s done with something, her mind is made up and she is done! But then I look at her relationship with Harry… Oh Harry, my ex-roommate turned brother-in-law, hi.
Can I just really quickly share how I found out they became a thing?! Back when Harry first became our roommate, I remember randomly coming home one day and finding my sister and Harry in our living room… sitting in the dark talking… The first time it happened I was like ok NBD, maybe she was just telling Harry he’s too messy or something. The next couple of times though, I was like alright this is just weird. I definitely had my suspicions and was annoyed until she finally told me!
I have to admit it was a weird beginning to my relationship with Harry, but you two made it really easy for me to support the relationship. It’s really cheesy to say, but I seriously mean it when I say; Harry, you make my sister a better person and I thank you for that. Seriously, my little brother and I used to always joke around about how scared we used to be of my sister because we thought she was bipolar! But she’s changed..
Okay, but in all seriousness! Harry, you’ve helped my sister overcome a lot of struggles and insecurities. And I just wanted to let you know how much you’ve impacted her life and her surrounding relationships. Seriously, I’ve never seen my sister fight so hard for a relationship she truly believed in like when you guys had that huge make it or break it fight.
Harry, because of you I see a more patient and loving Christiney who puts up the biggest fight for the relationships worth fighting for. Because of you I see a more kind and gentle sister, who gives so generously to her loved ones. These are all things and characteristics I’ve seen in not only her relationship with you, but her relationship with me, my little brother, my parents and her friends. To say that she loves you is an understatement… She truly cares and adores you. Thank you for accepting her and all of her weird habits, like drinking a gallon of milk with every meal. But most of all, thank you for allowing her to pick and pop all your back pimples, because I’m too much of a wimp to let her do it to me lol. I said it earlier and I’ll say it again, you make my sister a better person, and I thank you for that. Okay can we toast now lol.